"Most men want the maiden without any sort of cost to themselves. They want all the joys of the beauty without any of the woes of the battle. This is the sinister nature of pornography-enjoying the woman at her expense. Pornography is what happens when a man insists on being energized by a woman; he uses her to get a feeling that he is a man". - John Eldredge Interesting and controversial view of pornography in today's society when XXX sites are one of the top viewed websites across the world. Eldredge in his book goes on to say "it is the paragon of selfishness. He (OR SHE) offers nothing and takes everything". He then goes on to talk about the beauty of women, "Pretty woman endure this abuse all the time. They are pursued, but not really; they are wanted, but only superficially. They learn to offer their bodies, but never, ever their souls. Most men marry for safety; they choose a woman who will make them feel like a man but never really challenge them to...