We all love a good drama in books, movies, or around the water cooler. The media knows this and showcases live drama on news broadcasts several times a day. For those lacking drama in their own life, read your Facebook wall and you are set. How do we then dramaproof our own life? For many of us, we see everyone else as "drama queens" but rarely assume we fill that position. Au Contraire! Fundamentally, we have not been loved well and because of this find that we are a functioning player in a "drama" of some form almost every single day. In a drama, there are three players. First there is the victim who says "Help! I'm blameless". This person feels constant hurt, focuses on their own pain, and shifts blame. Then there is the persecutor who says "I am right and I am powerful". Humility is disregarded and is masked in pride. The last role is the rescuer who says "I can help because I am special". These people believe themselves to...